When kids share their artwork, it’s so tempting to ask “What is it?” (especially if we’re not sure what we’re looking at!). But even with the best intentions, that question can feel like a test. It puts the focus on the outcome rather than the process, and it can make a child second-guess their choices.
At Smudge, we’re all about open-ended art and helping kids feel confident to explore their own ideas. So when they proudly hold up something they’ve made, here are a few other things you can say instead:
“Can you tell me about what you’ve created?”
Gently opens space for your child to share without assuming there’s a ‘right’ answer.
“I loved watching you experiment.”
Shows them you value their process, not just the finished artwork.
“Can you show me how you did this part?”
Invites them to become the expert and proudly share their techniques.
“You looked like you were having fun!”
Acknowledges the most important part — the joy of creating.
“What was your favourite part to make?”
Helps them reflect on what felt good and meaningful during the making.
“You tried something new. That’s so brave.”
Celebrates creative risk-taking and the courage to explore.
“How did it feel to make this?”
Links art-making with emotional expression and helps kids name their feelings.
“I can see so much imagination and effort in this.”
Highlights the creativity and care they brought to their work, no matter the outcome.
At Smudge, we believe the best thing you can do is simply be present, curious and open. Not focusing on looking for answers, but leaning in to the wonder!
You don’t need to know what it is to know it matters. Just being there, noticing, and asking with genuine curiosity shows your child their ideas are worth sharing. That’s what stays with them.
